If a relationship ends because they were not treating you as you deserve then fuck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle for second best.
In order to move on, you must understand why you felt what you did and why you no longer need to feel it.
If someone wants to be a part of your life, they'll make an effort to be in it. Don't bother reserving a space in your heart for someone who doesn't make an effort to stay.
When faced with two choices, simply toss a coin. It works not because it settles the question for you, but because in that brief moment when the coin is in the air, you suddenly know what you are hoping for.
Be as simple as you can be; you will be astonished to see how uncomplicated and happy your life can become.
"I feel too much. That's what's going on."
"Do you think one can feel too much? Or just feel the wrong ways?"
"My insides don't match up with my outsides."
"Do anyone's inside and outsides match up?"
"I don't know. I'm only me."
"Maybe that's what a person's personality is: the difference between the inside and the outside."
"But it's worse for me."
"I wonder if everyone thinks it's worse for him."
"Probably. But it really is worse for me."(Jonathan Safran Foer, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close)
In order to move on, you must understand why you felt what you did and why you no longer need to feel it.
If someone wants to be a part of your life, they'll make an effort to be in it. Don't bother reserving a space in your heart for someone who doesn't make an effort to stay.
When faced with two choices, simply toss a coin. It works not because it settles the question for you, but because in that brief moment when the coin is in the air, you suddenly know what you are hoping for.
Be as simple as you can be; you will be astonished to see how uncomplicated and happy your life can become.
"I feel too much. That's what's going on."
"Do you think one can feel too much? Or just feel the wrong ways?"
"My insides don't match up with my outsides."
"Do anyone's inside and outsides match up?"
"I don't know. I'm only me."
"Maybe that's what a person's personality is: the difference between the inside and the outside."
"But it's worse for me."
"I wonder if everyone thinks it's worse for him."
"Probably. But it really is worse for me."(Jonathan Safran Foer, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close)
No comments:
Post a Comment