This entire weekend Blayn has been sending me these weird text messages. Yeah, I'm friends with him, but he has a girlfriend. Texting me sadfaces, because I saw him at the con and only said hi to him instead of giving him a hug, is ridiculous, especially because his girlfriend was standing right there with him.
I'm very respectful towards people when they are dating someone, so as not to seem too flirtatious or touchy-feely, because most couples aren't okay with their significant other having friendships like that. I'm completely understanding of that, but then Blayn keeps texting me this stuff about how he was so disappointed that at the rave I didn't seek him out, how I owe him a hug the next time I see him, how he "knows" I enjoy hugging him. He was just being REALLY weird.
Naturally, I called him out on it. He immediately felt bad and was worried that I was getting the wrong idea. I spent 10 minutes texting him that it's fine and that I'm not upset, so he shouldn't be, which caused this to happen...
Blayn: "but you were thinking that.."
Me: "and I thought wrong so it's no big deal - you really have no reason to feel bad, because you weren't flirting with me."
no response from him since 9:42pm.
I'm very respectful towards people when they are dating someone, so as not to seem too flirtatious or touchy-feely, because most couples aren't okay with their significant other having friendships like that. I'm completely understanding of that, but then Blayn keeps texting me this stuff about how he was so disappointed that at the rave I didn't seek him out, how I owe him a hug the next time I see him, how he "knows" I enjoy hugging him. He was just being REALLY weird.
Naturally, I called him out on it. He immediately felt bad and was worried that I was getting the wrong idea. I spent 10 minutes texting him that it's fine and that I'm not upset, so he shouldn't be, which caused this to happen...
Blayn: "but you were thinking that.."
Me: "and I thought wrong so it's no big deal - you really have no reason to feel bad, because you weren't flirting with me."
no response from him since 9:42pm.
Men just need to stop being dumb. Women too. Animals don't do that! They're just like "pheromones! Okay get it on." Now let's not say "get it on" but still, just admit feelings for one person or the other.
ReplyDeleteBleh.
Seriously... say what you mean and mean what you say; if you have something to say, then just say it. It's not that complicated!!
ReplyDeletemen suck. I HOPE to be FOREVER ALONE. <3
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ReplyDeletevolunteering at Petco brings me one step closer to that goal!