Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Contemplation

You know that moment where you realize how little you actually know? It's not necessarily that you thought you knew everything, but you just never found out how wrong you were. I just had one of those moments; well, I'd say I'm constantly having them.

It's amazing how everyone is moving in all sorts of directions and how we can live our lives unaware of our neighbor's road-map. We never know where a person has been or where they are going, unless we ask. Every single person has some nuance about them that makes them "them", but so often we live our lives just focused on "us". It's crazy to think that among everyone on this Earth that we all have our own individual stories and tales that end up making us unique.

I think that's something I really like about people as a whole; by definition, there should never be a dull moment in friendships or dating or what have you. You are constantly discovering little facets about everyone you meet, maybe things you never expect or things that make sense, but you'd never even considered.

Knowing that I don't know as much as I thought I did just makes me want to ask questions even more so. However, this is a double edged sword. What if my curiosity pushes people away? What if my attempt at becoming closer just gets me more detached in the end?

Ah well, I'll get my answers all in due time. It'd be helpful if I could even answer the questions myself, right? :P

4 comments:

  1. You write the best blogs. Me gusta.

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  2. Sometimes I think your compliments are you just patronizing me, so I have no idea how to respond to this! :P

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  3. no he is serious! I love your blog so much. You put your thoughts down so beautifully <3

    Its fascinating to think how all people in the world have all there own stories to tell all different experiences that no one will ever be able to recreate.

    But I dont think you need to worry Jess. A true friend will be happy to share with you and never get annoyed by your desire to learn more about them. <3

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  4. you guys are so sweet :D <3

    I just never wanna make someone feel uncomfortable! Plus, I find it difficult to segway into questions in a normal fashion, otherwise it just comes off as garbled nonsense :P

    I'm so thankful that you guys even read my blog <3 it means a lot to me!!

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